Sunday, April 27, 2014

The Windows to the Soul

Have you ever asked yourself what are the windows to the soul? 

These windows are the eyes since they are capable of revealing a great deal about what a person is feeling or thinking. As you engage in conversation with another person, you may see whether he/she is making direct eye contact or averting their gaze, how much they are blinking, or if their pupils are dilated.

1- Breaking eye contact and frequently looking away may indicate that the person is distracted, uncomfortable, or trying to conceal his or her real feelings.





2- Blinking is natural, but you should also pay attention to whether a person is blinking too much or too little. People often blink more rapidly when they are feeling distressed or uncomfortable.


3- One of the most subtle cues that eyes provide is through the size of the pupils. While light levels in the environment control pupil dilation, sometimes emotions can also cause small changes in pupil size. 






1 comment:

  1. Interesting ideas to know about! Meeting and communicating with people on a daily basis are inevitable experiences so it's beneficial to be aware of what messages they convey through eye contact to avoid unfavorable occurences.

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